4. Think Before You Say Yes

We usually enjoy helping others, so we often say yes to requests before thinking about them. As a result, we can get into situations that distract us from what’s important and get us working on other people’s agendas instead of our own. Instead of instantly agreeing to requests, take a moment to think about what you can and cannot do. Practice saying, “Let me think about it and I’ll get back to you [name a specific time].”

5. Toot Your Horn

In Victorious Woman Workshops, we laugh about how often men get credit for doing a fraction of what women do…and then learn from them. There is a reason why men get credit for doing less than women. They tell people, usually everyone, and women keep their deeds to themselves. You don’t have to become an obnoxious braggart, but you can send your boss a friendly, weekly email update (in bullet points). Most people like hearing interesting stories, so learn to talk about your accomplishments as interesting stories and in ways that highlight your strengths.

When you finish all five tips, start over. That’ll be just in time to renew your motivation again by pumping up the passion. You can’t think of New Year’s Resolutions like fairy dust that magically makes dreams come true. They take time, effort and energy. New Year’s Resolution – like all goals – aren’t a sprint, they’re a marathon. And it’s in those marathons that you’ll find your victory. Get started today!
 
© 2008 Annmarie Kelly. All rights reserved.

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